FIRST MONTH ON THE ROAD!!!! WOOOOoOOOoOO
First off....THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH TO EVERYONE WHO HAS SUPPORTED ME FINANCIALLY AND SPIRITUALLY ALL THIS TIME. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
First off....THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH TO EVERYONE WHO HAS SUPPORTED ME FINANCIALLY AND SPIRITUALLY ALL THIS TIME. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
So I think the last blog left off
around two-thirds of the way through training. Since then quite a
lot has happened. I've(started) writing this on October 12th
and we've been on the road for about 3 weeks now and things have been
super busy. It's Friday evening and I'm sitting in the living room of
our host home for the night. We're staying at the empty house of one
of the local teams, they're off on a trip to Knock for the weekend so
we're crashing at their place for the night. We just wrapped up our
13th retreat this afternoon.
It's funny, all at once it feels like
it's been ages since we left training, but at the same time it seems
like we just left. Our time out here has, of course, like everything
in life, been filled with plenty of struggles and joys. We've gone
out in pairs and stayed in various host homes, as well as swanky B&Bs
and awesome guest houses. I've slept on everything from allergy
crazy floors to super cozy double beds. I've stayed with devoutly
orthodox Priests as well as good-hearted agnostics, and learned a ton
from both. I've met a boxer dog, bigger than some friends, named
Tigger who loved nothing more than standing up on his hind legs and
wrapping his paws around your neck for a hug. I've seen breathtaking
vistas basically every time I've looked out our van window, and
gotten a closer look, through various expeditions, a lot more often
than I would've thought. I've drank a Guiness (SO MUCH BETTER HERE)
in a local country pub while a live band played some reels, all while
enjoying the best onion rings I've ever had. But most importantly
I've been streched and pulled by grace in so so so many ways, some
expected, others definitely not, and its truly been amazing.
Each retreat, while basically the
same, has a character all its own thanks to one pretty important
variable, the retreatants themselves. Our particular team operates
exclusively through the schools here, which, for the most part, are
run through the Church. Our average day involves waking up somewhere
between 5:30-7:00, followed by 20-45 minutes of personal prayer,
breakfast, a quick run-down of the day, and then arrival. We've
pretty much got our set-up routine down to a science, with each
member having specific roles and functions throughout every stage of
the day. It really is awesome to see us running at top form, looking
like a well oiled evangelization machine. The retreat (Encounter
Day) starts around 9 AM and consists of a series of games, sketches,
music, dramas, fillers (my purple rose story etc.), talks, small
groups, and prayers. With the whole day peaking in the afternoon
with a powerful prayer service. The only thing I just about always
do on a retreat is lead music. We do one praise and worship song in
the first half of the day, and then later on I play a meditation song
on my own. Other than that what I'm doing changes day to day. I
would say about 90% of the time I have a SG(small group), and the few
times I don't are tough because it's hard getting to know the kids
without one of those. We do various dramas, think like “Everything
Skit”, throughout the day, with an elaborate one towards the end of
the retreat, some goofy ones (I get lots of shaving screamed
splattered on me pretty frequently), and, depending on the day, I
might be performing in several or none at all. We take turns leading
games, doing fillers, giving talks, testimonies, allllll sorts of
stuff. This format inevitably results in days where I'll be doing
toooons of stuff, or days where all I might be doing is leading a
small group and singing a song. I honestly thought this whole not
doing a lot thing was gonna be a lot tougher, but it really hasn't
been nearly the struggle I was expecting, whatdy'know, prayer works.
The culmination of a NET Encounter day
is the Prayer Ministry, a time when each retreatant has the
opportunity to talk and pray, individually, with their small group
leader. I can honestly say that this has been the absolute best part
of my time here. It's amazing how much these kids open up, and how
willing they are to allow God's grace. Already I've met so many
incredible young men and women of all different ages and backgrounds.
Each age group and gender has their own set of challenges, but
they've all been such a joy for me in their own way. We just wrapped
up a retreat with a bunch of 6th year (senior girls) and
AH! They were so fun! My first all-girls retreat( a couple weeks ago
in Sligo) was a little scary at first, but once we started talking
about chocolate we were good to go and I never looked back. I would
say the toughest retreat so far has been a group of third years boys
at a rougher school in Galway. They just could not stop punching and
screaming, ALL DAY LONG. The greatest joy so far was one of the
first retreats we did in County Kerry. We were at the same school, a
mixed school, for 3 days, and by the end of our stay we knew half the
school. Sandwiched in between our first years on tuesday, and our
third years on thursday, was a fantastic group of 6th
years. We had an absolutely amazing time with these kids and were
lucky enough to run into a few of them the next day in town. I was
walking around taking pictures while my teammates Devan and Gannon
were inside a watch shop and I ran into a group of them. We took
some pictures and talked for awhile and it was just amazing to see
just how much of an impact this 7 hour retreat had made on them.
Everytime I'm getting down or discouraged I think about that
encounter with those kids and I'm instantly reinvigorated.
Anyways! The lifestyle has been so
intense, I'm very grateful for the 6 weeks we spent in Derry
training, and the way that was able to sorta ease me into the whole
getting up early, staying organized, being responsible and
disciplined thing. Not that it's not still a struggle, but it's much
more manageable than I thought it would be.
Some Lows
-Hardly any free time has been tough some days
-We don't really know where were going to be beyond a couple of day
-I'm prone to car sickness sometimes in the van
-I've gone through an obscene amount of socks
-my camera mysteriously stopped working yesterday and I have no idea
what could've caused it
-my laptop battery is seriously limited and, when away from outlets,
like we often are using internet in McDonalds, I can't use it
-I miss playing basketball!!
-I miss my family and friends!
-I miss cats
-We eat pretty light when we're all together
Honestly these lows, are really relatively minor things, I would say
honestly home sickness is the toughest thing, you guys are all just
so great and I miss yas. While God's seriously blessed me with a
wonderful NET family I can't help but miss you guys back home.
Some Highs!!
-SO MANY AWESOME RETREAT STORIES!
-SO MANY INCREDIBLY STUPIDLY WONDERFUL INSIDE JOKES!
-A LOT of dancing
-I've gotten to read a lot of awesome books on the road
-Everywhere is beautiful
-I've met some seriously awesome priests
-I've been able to witness some seriously incredible spiritual growth
in myself and my team
-I haven't broken a guitar string in a few weeks!
-I've learned a lot of fun Irish lingo
-A host mom at a house I wasn't even staying at gave me a haircut and
I loved it!
-I've had a ton of fantastic, gigantic, Irish breakfasts
-PENNYS
-I still love the weather, in all its muggy, cold, rainy, glory!
-The Irish are hilarious
OK so before I go and proofread this thing and post it up online,
here's a little rundown of where we've been in 3 weeks.
- Derry to Donegal
- Donegal to Kerry
- Kerry to Sligo
- Sligo to Galway
- Galway to Donegal
- Donegal to Meath
- Meath to Cavan
- Cavan to Louth
- Louth to Kildare
Love you guys so much
Another post in another 3 weeks or so probably!